Monday, November 5, 2007

Online dating with Russian women

Nowadays it has become a fashion for foreign people to search for young beautiful Russian women and to bring them to their successful and happy countries. There are many various opinions concerning this tendency. Some people think that Russian and Ukraine brides are free housewives; they are sexual and beautiful and have genetic East fidelity to their husbands. Others still believe in love and find Russian and Ukraine brides romantic and gentle. So Americans and other foreign men, hearing or reading relationship advice and dating tips about ideal East wives and modern matchmaking, try to find perfect Russian women by means of the Internet.

Internet can be a good way to find someone with whom you are really compatible. By getting to know people well before you meet them, you have a chance to weed out those whose interests and lifestyles are not compatible with yours. You can control many aspects of your relationship and change anything that needs to be changed before it is too late. Here are some advantages of on-line dating:
• It’s very easy to place a personal ad online and it’s usually free. Millions of singles are looking for partners online. With so many people you can meet and many options to choose from, you’ll increase your chances of meeting people that share your interests or meeting that special someone.
• Unlike offline dating, you don’t have to wonder if the person you’re interested in meeting is available for dating. Everyone using the online dating service *is* available to date.
• With online dating, you can learn so much about people before meeting face-to-face. How do they present themselves in their profiles or personal ads? Do they seem funny, articulate, interesting, charming or obnoxious?
• Pictures are worth a thousand words. Do you think you can be attracted to that person or not? Of course, some people look better or worse when you meet them in person.
• There’s less pressure on dates when you’re using online dating services. When you’re on a date with the only interesting person you’ve met the last six months, there’s so much pressure for that date to go well in a standard dating situation. When dating online, you know that when your date doesn’t turn out well, you’ll have other opportunities to meet many other interesting people.
• There’s so much more pressure to be liked during a standard date; so, people end up not being themselves during the date. When you’re getting to know people online, you can relax and be yourself. So, you have a better chance of being liked and accepted just the way you are. Whether you’re a gorgeous, athletic god/goddess or a couch potato on pizza and burger daily diet, you will have a chance of meeting your match.
• With online dating, you’ll have a much better chance of building a relationship that lasts. You can form deeper and more intimate relationships when you can establish mind-to-mind, heart-to-heart and soul-to-soul connections with someone. With standard dating, there’s usually so much more focus on physical attraction instead of character traits, values and mind-heart-soul compatibilities.
• By exchanging emails or talking on the phone before meeting in person, you’ll have a much better chance of evaluating your connection with that person before you develop any physical attraction. Attraction and lust can often cloud one’s thinking. Most relationships primarily based on physical attraction often lead to pain and heartache for the people involved.
Unfortunately on-line dating has its own disadvantages:
• It’s easy to think that someone who writes you or talks to you daily for weeks or months may be a good catch. But, this person may be hiding behind those great emails or phone conversations and may be incapable of having a more concrete relationship.
• Almost all online dating services are for singles, but some married people may be lying and using the service. If something doesn’t seem right, trust your instincts.
• Maintaining a high level of members can be a challenge. Initially, the numbers will grow but over time, people drop off for one reason or another, usually because they have made a connection, which is a good thing for them but that is one less potential person for you.
• If you were to meet someone in another city, state, or country that interests you, and that relationship builds to something more than friendship, one of you would have to make a decision regarding relocation
• Internet dating is limiting in the sense that you’ll only be meeting folks who spend time on the Internet, which excludes a whole raft of people.
• Getting to know someone online, may give you a false sense of security. Just like off line dating, there are bad people online. So, always think of your safety when you’re meeting someone you don’t really know.

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